I posted the first in a series of thoughts revolving around “busting” our excuses a while back, and thought I’d continue throwing a few more out there today for you to ponder and put into action…
What’s amazing about these kinds of self deprecating and defeating negative thoughts, is that they are so common among all of us! :-) Depending on where we are at any point in our lives, every single one of us, from the elite at the sharp end of the race all of the way back to the average everyday athlete, at one time or another has struggled with feelings of self worth or of doubting ourselves or feeling we don’t have what it takes. From those feelings, we can lose the motivation and inspiration we need to be great and to feel good about where we are at!
Knowing we all go through some of these at one time or another, should help each of us. We’re not alone. What I have found is the most productive strategy with ANY of these negative thoughts, is to immediately STOP thinking a certain way (negative) and begin immediately replacing that negative with some kind of a positive thought or belief. Repeat it, over and over, and then begin immediately to TAKE SOME ACTION that will reinforce that positive belief, thought, or feeling.
I want to encourage you to remember that the action need not be monumental or huge. Sometimes something as simple as 5min of exercise or a single, relaxed, Yoga pose…or eating a single food that nourishes our body and mind, or spending a few minutes reading a short passage from one of our favorite books on the topic, can be all we need to right the ship and keep on keeping on, in a productive way.
What works for you?
Read on…
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I’m overwhelmed with too many responsibilities and I”…………
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Believe me, I know the feeling. Sometimes we ARE just so overwhelmed, we can feel like throwing up our hands or crawling into a hole and curling up in the fetal position. While this is sometimes what we feel like, its the WRONG thing to do! That’s exactly what you must not do.
When you’re overwhelmed, that’s all the more reason to start taking the actions that will help you grow and improve your situation. When you’re overwhelmed is when you’re the most frustrated, but also often the most motivated. Now is your chance to really take action with dedication and commitment. Don’t blow the opportunity. The frustration you feel is good, solid positive energy waiting to be released. If it is not released in a positive direction, there is the danger that it will become destructive energy. Use that frustration to your advantage. You’re overwhelmed? GREAT! Do something about it right now. Stop complaining and start taking positive action. I know, sounds harsh, but sometimes its what we all need to hear.
If you’re overwhelmed it means that there are plenty of things which can be done, things which will most likely make a difference very quickly. Pick something, anything, that you know will allow you to feel better about yourself and your situation, and start doing it right now. As soon as you get busy and take some action, your frustration will once again be the thing that starts pushing you forward.
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“I’m just an average athlete and not very experienced, and I don’t know if I really deserve to succeed”……….
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This feeling of unworthiness, because we feel like a novice or “average,” is so common, and faulty thinking! Come on now, you are just as worthy, just as valuable, and in a place that EVERY athlete or person has been in at one time or another. No one should be able to intimidate you, no matter where THEY are at in their own path of personal growth, or goodness knows, what their business card says, or how big their house is, or what their “personal best” time for Ironman is.
No one is better than you. You are the best there is. Inside you is the potential to do, or be anything you desire. No one has more than that. Some may have progressed farther down the path at this moment, but that doesn’t make them any better than you or more worthy.
If you start to take action right now, you will be working your way down that same path. No matter what anyone says, or does, no matter what your situation — personal, financial, social or otherwise — you can choose to live your life in your own way. And there is no greater success than that. But you must be the one to achieve your success. Though no one can hold you back if you’re determined enough, by the same token no one can do it for you. You’ve got to step up to the challenge, believe in yourself, and do what it takes, every day. Right now is a great time to start. You deserve the best that life, and your sport, has to offer. Do whatever needs to be done to make it happen, but most importantly, BELIEVE in you, and in the power that you possess inside.
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“I’ve already tried that”………..
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Trying is just not enough. The only way to accomplish what you want to accomplish is to do it, to do whatever it takes, to keep making the effort every day, until you achieve what you set out to achieve. If at first you don’t succeed, you’ve still learned something valuable about how to proceed. If you’ve already tried, that’s fine. Keep going. Make use of that experience. You’ve got a valuable perspective on what works and what doesn’t. Stop trying and start taking whatever action is necessary to reach the goal. Learn from the mistakes and appointments. Keep going. Start right now to really make it happen. You can do it. You are doing it, just keep doing it!
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Thanks for reading this far…make it a great day!





